Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Do Girls Go for the Nice Guys?

I think it's funny that I started this blog at the one time in my life when I am dating the least amount I've ever dated, but I guess that's why I actually have time to blog right now  :)  I feel like it's getting kind of boring though and my random dates haven't been really post-worthy so that's why I haven't posted in a while. 
I had to post this article though that one of my guy friends shared on facebook yesterday.  It's called "Why do Nice Guys Finish Last".  It does a pretty good job explaining the difference between a "nice guy" who comes off as weak and guys who ARE nice.  We like guys who are nice.  Some of us girls don't go for bad boys or the players and games, so just keep being nice, boys.  We just like a guy who has confidence to be himself because like this article says, girls don't want just a nice guy, they want a great guy :).  As a girl I can tell you that we do appreciate it when guys are nice.  For example, this week, since I am moving, a guy offered to help me move stuff.  This was really nice.  It earned tons of bonus points and made my respect for him go up evern more.  So it's true that we do like it and notice it when guys are nice to both us and those around them.
Here's the article:

http://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_advice_600/608_why-do-nice-guys-finish-last.html


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