Red Flags

Here are just a few red flags to look out for when dating someone:

Too Many Differences
-You don't share any common interests: If you find yourself no longer pursuing the things you love and are changing to do only what the other person loves you're not being true to yourself
-You don't have common life goals: Do you have different ideas about how to live, how to raise a family or what your standards and expectations are in dating?
They make you lower your usual standards to meet theirs
-They want you to do something you're not comfortable with
-The guy doesn't offer to pick you up
-The guy doesn't plan dates in advance in the early stages of the relationship
-The guy never talks on the phone, but only texts
They only want you alone
-You don't want to introduce them to your family or friends after you've been dating a while for fear of what they may think
-They don't express interest to meet your family or friends or introduce you to theirs after dating for a while
He doesn't pay attention to you when he's with you
-They're constantly on their phone when you're with them
-They have to leave to answer calls
-Won't hold your hand in public
-If they don't ask you questions about yourself and really make an effort to get to know you, they're probably not really into you as a person
Lack of motivation
-He has a lack of motivation-whether it's career wise, education wise, or lack of planning dates or wanting to go do fun things
-You're only watching movies: If he's not taking you out places and doing things once in a while that you enjoy doing then it's going nowhere good
Moves Too Fast
-They're too clingy in the beginning before they really know you.  This can be a sign of a lack of self control and you can bet he'll leave you and cheat on you just as fast as he tried to jump into a serious relationship with you
You don't see them being a good future parent